These are some of the things, I have learnt over years, that I think is – what it means to grow up or what defines you as being called an adult (apart from your age of course).


Good to have:

  • Learn to contain your anger
  • Say you did it, or I did not know what to do. Speak about yourself comfortably
  • Do not try to correct everyone who disrespect you, sometimes saying ‘they are beyond becoming a better person, so Forget it’. Do not try to have the last word. ‘Forget it’ is a stronger last word
  • Everything caught on camera(TV, FB, Insta, Yt, etc), is not true life and true happiness


Good to loose:

  • Respond according to how people react